Different People

Dear World,

Today, I want to talk about... different people. What's the difference between different and normal? Is there even normal anymore? When comparing one person to the other, yes were different in personality, looks, maturity, style, likes, dislikes... things like that. When you get into an argument with someone, sometimes, no one could necessarily even be at fault, because the situation was been viewed by two, completely different points of view. It's impossible to say, I understand you, because we DON'T! We are all SO different that even if we tried, there is no way on earth we could understand each other. Even when people are struggling with things. You can't even understand their struggles, because there could be so many different things relating to it that you wouldn't know exactly what is effecting them or how much of an impact it's having on their life. How much it's hurting them, changing them (and maybe not always for the better). There's no way of knowing.

Why do we judge people who are different in their weirdness? My friend, Jackie Leonard, is the WEIRDEST person you have ever met in your LIFE! and she's an adult! which makes here even "weirder". If you don't love her weirdness than you wouldn't have been able to find out that she is one of the most compassionate, loving people you've ever met. And she is hugely accepting. And you know what the awesome thing is? She does not CARE if people like her or not! Why do we have to be so judge mental of the way that people are. I mean, if someone had thought that Jackie was crazy, and off the bat, didn't want to get to know her just by a first impression, they could have never found out how much of an amazing person she is!

We're all a little weird, some more than others. We should feel comfortable with it, AND be comfortable with other people's weirdness. It's who they ARE, and they ARE that way for a reason. I love looking at one of my friends and then comparing them to another and looking at just how DIFFERENT they are! It's crazy! But I still love them both because they are both individual!! If they were the same, then where would the fun in that be? If everyone was the same, life would be boring. And I know that people say that a lot. "if the world was filled with a bunch of copy cats, then it would be soooo boring." But seriously. Pick one person you know, and imagine EVERYONE IN THE WORLD INCLUDING YOURSELF being EXACTLY like that one friend!

Thank GOD were different! Oh my goodness, how grateful I am that we are all not alike! Ah, I think I would go crazy if I had a million of just ONE of my friends!

...goodness.

In Him,
Maddie